There’s two things I’ve learned about goal setting in the last year. One, at times I set unrealistic goals and then have to deal with my disappointment when I don’t reach them. Two, I set goals only based on the outcome I want, not on the actions I need to take to achieve my goals. So I’ve changed the ways I set my goals.
First, for each outcome I want, I create a Minimum, Target and Outrageous goal. The Minimum maybe something I’ve achieved before and want to do again or is new but not too much of a stretch. My Target is what I really want to achieve but it does represent a stretch. And Outrageous is quite a stretch but I would be deliriously happy if I achieved it.
Then I create a detailed action plan to reach my Target goal. I stick to the actions (in my control) and let the Universe decide (out of my control) which goals it wants to help me reach the Outrageous level.
Here’s an example:
One of my financial goals is to buy a NEW (used) car by June 30th.
O – Lexus
T – Audi
M – Honda CRV
A personal goal is to plan quarterly Spa Days and Weekends.
O – Spa magazine destination! (top 25 spas in country)
T – Mirbeau or Niagara on the Lake
M – Beau Monde/Del Monte
Lastly, one of our relationship goals is to get involved in a charity.
O – Donate $2000 to Make a Wish Foundation and meet the family.
T – Have an event for Women Business Owners and raise money for KIVA.
M – Go to Ronald McDonald House and cook a meal.
The goals are set. I’ve got a lot of planning to do. And mostly, a lot of massive action to take!
